The Perfect Blowjob

I recently watched a video on how to give the perfect blow job. “Remember, lots of eye contact,” the hot blonde urged me. “Guys love eye contact! And don’t forget the hand action! The perfect blowjob is a combination of mouth and hands,” she said with certainty.

And I rolled my eyes. If I were to follow that advice, my Sir would slap me upside the head.

Pro tip: The perfect blowjob is different for every single guy, for every single blowjob, and the perfect technique may even change mid-blowjob. Every guy likes it a little differently. Some want you to suck the head, or just lick it, while others (like certain Sirs I know…) want to tickle your tonsils and make you gag up throat snot. Some want your hands on the shaft, others want your lips on the shaft. Some love having you gaze up at them, others find that kind of creepy.

Want to know how to really give the perfect blowjob? Ask the owner of the cock you’re getting ready to suck. When I’m sucking my Sir’s cock, I never have to worry about whether he’s enjoying it, whether I should do something different. Harder? Softer? Faster? Slower? He’ll tell me. And that is a huge relief to me! It means that all I need to do is close my eyes, suck his cock, and listen to his voice.

If you can’t do that with the owner of the cock you’re sucking? If you can’t ask him what he wants, how he likes it? Then you need to find another cock that you’re more comfortable with, one whose owner can express his needs more clearly. Trust me, the sex will be better for you too.

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